Friday, February 13, 2009

10 Ways To Boosting Your Relationship

How To Make Your Man Love You More!

For Many Women,Life Tends to overwhelm us over and over again.We seem to focus on the more negative things life throws our way.This can be very wearing on our relationships.What we need do is to sit and think about a few things we can do to battle against this happenings.
These are the ways to boost your relationship:

1.Touch:Start with the nicest feel good things,and that is touch.For couples,touch each other,even if it is just as you pass by.Cuddling and hugging are good ways of touching while running your hand down your partner's back or through the hair is a sweet touch.Intimacy is the sweetest way to share your relationship with your partner.It just needs no ears,it needs no eyes,it just needs touch.So touch someone and feel good!

2.Respect: Respecting one another and giving each other space,when you feel it is much needed,is truly a show of love.Being there to listen when your spouse feels like talking after having a bad day is totally a good thing to do.

3.Give Gift:We all love receiving gifts.Surprises are not just for children.This practice shows love in a quiet way.When you surprise someone with a tiny gift,even just a card,it kind of whilspers you are actually thinking of him.It's a very sweet and loving thing to do.Those little surprises also keeps the romance in your life.

4.Pay Compliments:Compliments are always nice to get or to give.Giving your sweety a compliment in front of others is even sweeter.It sends a message of truly appreciating him and shows that you are proud of your relationship.

5.Don't Judge:This is one we all are guilty of and that is judging your spouse's ideas,or turning him down when he is just starting to tell you about them.When you are at this point,stop for a minute and think about them and what he is trying to share.Then if you are against it,tell him softly and with a smile.We all think differently and we do not all share the same opinions and thats cool.It is how we send this message across that determines the outcome of the conversation.

6.Don't Ignore:Ignoring the other person or treating him like he's not there is very hurtful to do.It is downright mean.Even if you are angry at him,try to remember,this is the one you love,and who also loves youThere is a saying:"You only hurt the one you love"Well it's time to change that saying."Love the one you love."

7.Avoid Getting Angry:It's ok to get angry and state your anger if it cause you some pain.We all have to do that at times,but just remember that your mate also feels bad for making you angry.Think about not having that person ever again and maybe that will help you and not let the meanness creep in.

8.Learn To Listen:Shut your mouth and open your ears.Just to know you are being heard is such a good feeling.But to also know you are being understood is totally awesome.These are very important things to a good communication which boost a relationship.

9.Sincerity and Obedience:You must learn to be sincere in dealing with your partner because when you are not,he feels you are cheating on him.Also,learn to be obedient because every man feels a woman is sacrificing for love when she obeys him.It's one of the keys to boost your relationship.Do not allow disobedient to bring argument between the both of you because sometimes argument may leads to misunderstanding.


10:Talk Soft:Use your small voice as long as you can.Over half of our communication is based on sound level or tones.When you keep your sound level soft,you keep your partner's ears open and this allows him to hear you.It keeps message flowing and communication open.Many tense discussions are solved this way.
Say the words:"I love you",are the three most important words a person understands.They are music to our ears and we all love good music.So just say them,now and everyday.
Note:What does a woman crave for when she's down and out?What does she yearn for when feeling trapped in a pit of loliness?Support,Love,Patience,understanding and last but not the least.....Huggs.

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